Very Health Q&A Men’s Health

Why do people in their forties want to have sex every day? The answer reveals how old a woman is before she doesn’t want to have sex

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Asked on:Apr 12, 2026 11:16 PM

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  • Dusk Dusk

    Apr 12, 2026

    The strong sexual desire of men in their forties may be related to factors such as higher androgen levels, the need to release psychological stress, and stable marital relationships.; Loss of sexual desire in women usually begins during perimenopause and is greatly affected by hormonal changes, psychological factors and social concepts.

    1. Changes in hormone levels:

    Although men's testosterone levels slowly decline after the age of 40, individual differences are significant, and some men still maintain high androgen secretion. When women enter perimenopause at the age of 45-55, estrogen and testosterone decrease simultaneously. About 60% of women will experience a decrease in sexual desire, but there are individual differences.

    2. Psychological compensation mechanism:

    Middle-aged men may use frequent sex to relieve workplace stress or age anxiety, while women may develop sexual avoidance due to increased family responsibilities. Society's stereotypes about male sexual prowess can also reinforce this pattern of behavior.

    3. Partner interaction mode:

    In a long-term and stable marriage, men are more likely to maintain regular sexual needs. Female sexual desire is often positively related to emotional connection. Without effective communication, sexual needs may gradually weaken.

    4. Physical health status:

    Chronic diseases such as high blood pressure and diabetes will indirectly affect sexual function, but healthy men can still maintain an active sexual desire after the age of 40. Reproductive system aging symptoms such as female pelvic floor muscle relaxation and vaginal dryness will directly reduce the quality of sexual experience.

    5. Social and cultural impact:

    The traditional concept is that a strong male sexual desire is a sign of "attractiveness", while women's sexual needs after menopause are often stigmatized. This double standard can amplify differences in how sexual desire manifests between the sexes in midlife.

    It is recommended that middle-aged couples improve their basal metabolism through joint exercises such as yoga and swimming, and supplement nutrients such as zinc and vitamin E in appropriate amounts. Women can use water-soluble lubricants to relieve dryness, but men should avoid overreliance on aphrodisiacs. Conduct regular gynecological/andrological examinations to rule out potential influencing factors such as abnormal thyroid function and cardiovascular disease. Maintaining in-depth emotional communication 2-3 times a week and establishing an intimate method of non-sexual contact can help balance the differences in sexual needs between the two parties.