Postpartum recovery copywriting circle of friends

The core logic of restoring the circle of friends after giving birth is never to show off the "hot mom persona" or show off the speed of recovery to gain attention, but to record the status in a way that feels comfortable to you. You don't have to hide it to take care of other people's emotions, and don't brag for the sake of comparison. I gave birth naturally and had side effects. Che, my baby is now 10 months old, and I have posted related content three times. I have been misunderstood about doing micro-business, and I have been criticized for "someone is raising a baby while standing and talking without back pain." I have also tried a piece of content to send more than 20 mothers in the same community private messages asking for the recovery address. Just use the existing experience.

The first time I stepped into a trap was 30 days after giving birth. I spent a long time stuffing myself into my pre-pregnancy jeans. I took a photo of my lower body and posted it with the text "I can finally wear my old pants." As a result, distant relatives in the comment area asked, "Are we going to start selling postpartum repair products? Please help me." Another school girl who had just given birth a week later messaged me privately, saying that she was still 30 pounds heavier than before pregnancy. She cried as soon as the message was posted on my WeChat Moments, feeling that she was so useless. It was then that I realized that this kind of headless "results sharing" would either cause misunderstandings or poke holes in others' pain, and was completely unnecessary.

There is quite a quarrel about this on the Internet right now. One group says, "You shouldn't post on social media after postpartum recovery. Everyone's body constitution and the stress of raising a baby are different. Just because you recover quickly doesn't mean that others can do the same. Posting it will create anxiety."

If you just want to record it for yourself and don’t care about gossip, then the more specific the post, the better. Don’t post a photo of your waist and abdomen that has been microdermabraded until the texture is gone with “Return to pre-pregnancy weight after one month.” Instead, take a screenshot of the recovery report and put the private information Type a code and say "42 days postpartum review check-in, pelvic floor muscles finally passed, rectus abdominis still has 1 and a half fingers, practice slowly, don't rush 🥳", no one will really blame you, but mothers at the same stage will come over and ask you the address of the rehabilitation hospital and what pitfalls you have encountered. The last time I posted this, I met a mother who gave birth to a baby in the same hospital. She said she had the same rehabilitation therapist as me. The two of us complained for half an hour about how cruel the rehabilitation therapist was, and they even made an appointment to take the baby to the park together.

If you don’t want to be too conspicuous and just want to share your status with people close to you, it’s even easier. Just take a picture of your baby’s little hand on your belly and add the words “Work hard with my little meatball, and I finally dare to dance twice today.” I can’t go to the toilet anymore.” People who understand will naturally understand the frustration of leaking urine for more than half a month. People who don’t understand will not think too much about it. My cousin posted this last year, and her mother-in-law also commented on it, “Don’t be tired, take your time.” It was so heart-warming.

Oh, by the way, if you are in a related industry and want to take some private orders by the way, don't insist that you are a "postpartum recovery genius". Just share your real experience, such as "Today I took my best friend to do the rectus abdominis repair that I did before. She just gave birth. After 3 months of separation, 2 fingers shrunk by 0.5 after the first time. Sure enough, finding the right method is more effective than practicing blindly for half a year. If you want to know the address, just let me know. I will send you the regular customer discount I talked about at the time." On the contrary, it is much more reliable than you sending a bunch of comparison pictures with P's that even your mother will not recognize.

To be honest, don’t push yourself too hard just to post on WeChat Moments. I used to have a group friend of a baby mama who took photos of her waistcoat line just to be pregnant. She went to the gym to do abdominal crunches just 10 days after giving birth. As a result, the separation of the rectus abdominis changed from 2 fingers to 3 fingers, and there was also mild prolapse. It was not worth the gain. Postpartum recovery is a matter that varies from person to person. Some people are naturally prone to losing weight and some help raise the baby. It is normal for them to lose weight after the confinement period. Some people only rely on themselves to raise the baby and breastfeed the baby until the baby is one year old before slowly losing weight. No one can say that you are wrong.

Anyway, the circle of friends is your own territory after all. It is more important that you feel comfortable posting it than anything else. If you have to worry for a long time before posting whether this person will think too much about it or whether that person will be bitter to you, then it is really better to save it in the photo album and see it for yourself, don’t you think?